From Both Sides Of The Couch: Self-Awareness, Psychology & Mindfulness for Women
Do you ever feel like you've lost touch with yourself?
Maybe you're overwhelmed by everyone else's needs, emotionally exhausted, or simply moving through the motions of daily life wondering why you don't feel like yourself anymore.
Welcome to From Both Sides of the Couch, a psychology and mindfulness podcast for women who want to reconnect with themselves and create lives that feel more grounded, intentional, and fulfilling.
I'm Dr. Laurie Bruce, a licensed clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach with more than 25 years of experience helping women navigate stress, anxiety, burnout, difficult relationships, perfectionism, life transitions, and the emotional challenges that come with caring for everyone but themselves.
Each week, we'll explore the psychology behind why we think, feel, and behave the way we do, while learning practical mindfulness skills that help you move from autopilot to greater awareness, self-trust, and emotional well-being. Together we'll talk about topics like:
- Stress and anxiety
- Burnout and emotional exhaustion
- Mindfulness and self-awareness
- Boundaries and people-pleasing
- Relationships and communication
- Perfectionism and self-compassion
- Midlife transitions and personal growth
- Emotional regulation and resilience
My goal isn't to help you become someone new.
It's to help you reconnect with the person you've always been beneath the responsibilities, expectations, and endless doing.
If you're ready to slow down, understand yourself more deeply, and begin living with greater intention, I'm so glad you're here.
Let's connect: www.drlauriebruce.com
🌿 Take the "How Connected Are You?" Quiz
Discover how connected you are to yourself and receive personalized insights to help you begin reconnecting with greater awareness and intention.
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🤍 Join My Free Community
Continue the conversation inside our free Skool community, where you'll find encouragement, practical resources, and a supportive group of women who are learning to live with greater presence, self-trust, and intention.
Join here: https://www.skool.com/resilient-and-restored-8441/about
✨ Ready to go deeper?
If you're looking for ongoing support and guided practices to help you reconnect with yourself and create a more intentional life, I'd love to welcome you into Resilient & Restored, my membership for women who are ready to move beyond simply getting through their days and begin living with greater purpose and peace.
Learn more: https://drlauriebruce.com/resilientandrestored
Do you ever feel like you've lost touch with yourself?
Maybe you're overwhelmed by everyone else's needs, emotionally exhausted, or simply moving through the motions of daily life wondering why you don't feel like yourself anymore.
Welcome to From Both Sides of the Couch, a psychology and mindfulness podcast for women who want to reconnect with themselves and create lives that feel more grounded, intentional, and fulfilling.
I'm Dr. Laurie Bruce, a licensed clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach with more than 25 years of experience helping women navigate stress, anxiety, burnout, difficult relationships, perfectionism, life transitions, and the emotional challenges that come with caring for everyone but themselves.
Each week, we'll explore the psychology behind why we think, feel, and behave the way we do, while learning practical mindfulness skills that help you move from autopilot to greater awareness, self-trust, and emotional well-being. Together we'll talk about topics like:
- Stress and anxiety
- Burnout and emotional exhaustion
- Mindfulness and self-awareness
- Boundaries and people-pleasing
- Relationships and communication
- Perfectionism and self-compassion
- Midlife transitions and personal growth
- Emotional regulation and resilience
My goal isn't to help you become someone new.
It's to help you reconnect with the person you've always been beneath the responsibilities, expectations, and endless doing.
If you're ready to slow down, understand yourself more deeply, and begin living with greater intention, I'm so glad you're here.
Let's connect: www.drlauriebruce.com
🌿 Take the "How Connected Are You?" Quiz
Discover how connected you are to yourself and receive personalized insights to help you begin reconnecting with greater awareness and intention.
Take the quiz: https://drlauriebruce.com/quiz
🤍 Join My Free Community
Continue the conversation inside our free Skool community, where you'll find encouragement, practical resources, and a supportive group of women who are learning to live with greater presence, self-trust, and intention.
Join here: https://www.skool.com/resilient-and-restored-8441/about
✨ Ready to go deeper?
If you're looking for ongoing support and guided practices to help you reconnect with yourself and create a more intentional life, I'd love to welcome you into Resilient & Restored, my membership for women who are ready to move beyond simply getting through their days and begin living with greater purpose and peace.
Learn more: https://drlauriebruce.com/resilientandrestored
Episodes
Oct 21, 2025
Oct 21, 2025
12 min
Hey friends! Do you have something deeply important you wish you could tell someone, but can’t seem to find the right words? In today’s episode, we’re exploring a powerful therapeutic tool called “The Letter You’re Never Going to Send.”
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Join me, Dr. Laurie Bruce, as we dive into experiential therapy—why expressing your feelings can be deeply healing, and why sometimes it’s safer not to hear the other person’s response.
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The truth is, the only way through grief is through it. Not everyone deserves to hear your truth, even when it’s worth saying. Writing a letter allows you to release what’s been held inside. It might hurt, but through compassion and space, you can find peace.
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Listen to this week’s episode of From Both Sides Of The Couch: The Words Left Unsaid: Healing and Closure Through Letters.
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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.Â
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Oct 14, 2025
Oct 14, 2025
41 min
Hey everyone! In this episode, I’m joined by Russ Jones, the ADHD Big Brother, for an insightful conversation about what life with ADHD really looks like, especially for those diagnosed later in life, in their 40s. Russ also shares his personal journey of finding purpose through podcasting and building a supportive community.
Together, we’ll explore why it’s so important to recognize the signs of ADHD in childhood, the powerful role community plays in wellbeing, and what it means to live with the “now or not now” brain. We’ll also unpack the realities of life with ADHD beyond the expectations of “normie culture.”
Remember, ADHD isn’t laziness. It’s a different way of processing the world. And sometimes, the most powerful change begins with the smallest steps forward.
Listen to this week’s episode of From Both Sides Of The Couch: Adult ADHD Explained: What It’s Really Like to Be Diagnosed at 40.
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Russ Jones helps simplify the complicated aspects of this self-regulation disorder, offers easy-to-adopt solutions, and provides the necessary accountability to ensure you follow through on those solutions. He’s an educator at heart, and an entertainer by nature. He learned about his own ADHD, his co-morbid depression, and his other fun co-morbidities later in his life after a series of life-changing events. Having studied for years, working with numerous professionals, trying and failing many approaches while navigating his own life, he now knows what actually works and offers that to you. He is trained as an integrative wellness coach and also educated on ADHD-specific coaching.
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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.Â
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Sep 30, 2025
Sep 30, 2025
15 min
Who’s really driving your life? Are you in control or just along for the ride?
In this empowering episode of From Both Sides of the Couch, Dr. Laurie Bruce—clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach—guides you through a powerful car metaphor to explore self-responsibility, resilience, and personal growth. Each seat in the car represents a level of responsibility, from feeling stuck in the backseat to fully taking the wheel of your own life.
Even when resentment, frustration, or disempowerment creep in, the truth is clear: you have the power to shift gears, take the driver’s seat, and create the life you truly want. This episode will inspire women to embrace clarity, courage, and self-honesty as they navigate challenges and step into their full power.
If you’re ready to move from survival mode to empowerment, this conversation will give you the tools and perspective to start driving your life with confidence and purpose.
Listen to this week’s episode of From Both Sides Of The Couch: Personal Responsibility: Are You Driving Your Life or Stuck in the Backseat?
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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.Â
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#DriverSeatOfLife #TakeTheWheel #OwnYourLife
Sep 23, 2025
Sep 23, 2025
49 min
Did you know that 70% of people want to ask their doctors about sex… but don’t?
Join me, Dr. Laurie Bruce, your clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach, along with Dr. Diane Mueller, a board-certified sexologist, for an open and insightful conversation about sex after 40 and the truth behind what’s often labeled as “low libido.” Is it really a problem or simply a natural change?Â
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In this episode, we’ll unpack the feeling of shame many adults carry around their desires, why safe and honest conversations about sex are so important, and how the medical definition of low libido can be both limiting and misleading. Dr. Diane also shares insights on the link between relationship happiness and sex frequency, the difference between men's and women's desire and arousal, and the deeper root causes behind the lack of interest in sex.
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Listen to this week’s episode of From Both Sides Of The Couch: Sex After 40: Low Libido or Normal? | Dr. Diane Mueller Explains
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Dr. Diane Mueller is a board-certified sexologist with a deep study in tantric practice, sex coaching, and relationship therapy. She has a double doctorate as a Naturopathic Doctor and Doctor of Acupuncture & Oriental Medicine with 15+ years of clinical practice. She is a best-selling author, the host of The Libido Lounge podcast, and the founder of MyLibidoDoc.com. Her mission? To make conversations about sex feel as natural as chatting over coffee. She’s all about breaking down taboos, empowering women to embrace their desires, and helping them find lasting joy in their bodies and relationships.
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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.Â
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61555258666969Â
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#LowLibido #SexualHealth #MindfulIntimacy
Sep 16, 2025
Sep 16, 2025
16 min
Have you ever been in the middle of a heated argument where you’re feeling angry, but you're working very hard to keep calm… and the next thing you know, you’re crying?
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Join me, Dr. Laurie Bruce, your clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach, as we unpack why tears sometimes show up not when we’re sad but when we’re angry. Crying when angry is actually common; it’s our body’s release valve. But when it becomes a vicious cycle that makes it worse.
Together, we’ll explore the psychological and biological reasons behind it, why women in particular are more likely to experience this, and practical ways you can handle it.
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Listen to this week’s episode of From Both Sides Of The Couch: Why Women Cry When Angry (Angry Tears & What You Can Do)
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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.Â
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#EmotionalAwareness #CryingWhenAngry #AngerAndTears
Sep 9, 2025
Episode 46: Rediscovering Your Purpose
Sep 9, 2025
Sep 9, 2025
18 min
We’ve been the caregivers, the fixers, and the doers, but have you ever paused to ask yourself—Who am I?Â
In this episode, we’ll explore how to rediscover your purpose after years of putting everyone else’s needs ahead of your own.
Join me as we talk about why women often lose track of themselves while caring for others. I’ll also share practical steps you can take to reconnect with who you are—starting simply by asking yourself, “What do I want?”
There’s nothing wrong with being a helper, but your whole identity shouldn’t be tied to it. Guilt can arise when we focus on ourselves, yet rediscovering who we are and what aligns with our values is essential for true fulfillment. Let’s take this journey together.
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Listen to this week’s episode of From Both Sides Of The Couch: Rediscovering Your Purpose
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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.Â
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#RediscoverYourself #FindYourPurpose #SelfDiscoveryJourney
Sep 2, 2025
Episode 45: Mindfulness for Busy People
Sep 2, 2025
Sep 2, 2025
14 min
What exactly does mindfulness mean? In this episode, we’ll explore the buzzword mindfulness and why it’s such a powerful tool for improving our wellbeing and mental health. And let’s be clear—it’s more than just sitting cross-legged in silence or meditating on a mountain top.
We’ll look at who benefits most from mindfulness, how it can ease chronic pain, and share 3 simple and practical ways you can bring mindfulness into your daily routine, no matter how packed your schedule is.
Mindfulness is about noticing what’s happening in your body, being present, and choosing how you respond.Â
Listen to this week’s episode of From Both Sides Of The Couch: Mindfulness for Busy People.
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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.Â
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#MindfulnessPractice #MentalHealthAwareness #BePresent
Aug 29, 2025
Episode 44: When Therapy Doesn't Work
Aug 29, 2025
Aug 29, 2025
26 min
Have you ever felt like you’ve been in therapy forever, yet it doesn’t seem to be helping anymore? You’re not alone. In today’s episode, we’ll explore why therapy doesn’t always work, the key factors that make therapy more effective, and what you can do if you’re not finding the support you need.
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Hi friends, Dr. Laurie Bruce here, your clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. Together, we’ll talk about the moments when therapy doesn’t feel helpful and what other steps you can take for your healing and growth. I’ll also share research-backed studies that highlight the 3 patient factors that truly make therapy successful.
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We’ll uncover why motivation to change increases your chances of progress, why trust in your therapist is essential, and why your belief in the process matters. Remember, healing isn’t linear. You are never too broken—you simply need the right fit and the right support. Keep going!
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Listen to this week’s episode of From Both Sides Of The Couch: When Therapy Doesn't Work
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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.Â
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Aug 19, 2025
Episode 43: How To Manage Emotions
Aug 19, 2025
Aug 19, 2025
9 min
Do your emotions ever feel overwhelming, unpredictable, or simply “too much”? You’re not alone. In this episode, we’ll explore how to understand and manage your emotions using a simple but powerful tool—the “emotions thermometer.”
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Hey friends! I’m Dr. Laurie Bruce, your friendly clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. Together, we’ll learn how to notice your emotional intensity, from calm to highly activated, and choose the right coping strategies that can keep a tough moment from turning into something bigger.
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I’ll also share practical tools to help your nervous system regulate and strengthen your emotional resilience. Remember, emotions aren’t something to fear—they’re something to work with. So the next time you feel overwhelmed, pause and ask yourself: Where am I on my emotions thermometer?Â
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Listen to this week’s episode of From Both Sides Of The Couch: How to Manage Emotions
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Dr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach. She received her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise is in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), which is a treatment that combines both traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern Mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist and completed a year-long intensive training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. She’s passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to help address trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders and for personal and spiritual development.Â
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#EmotionalResilience #EmotionsThermometer #RegulateYourEmotions
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Aug 12, 2025
Aug 12, 2025
21 min
Have you ever felt like your body is trying to send you a message, but you just can’t quite understand what it’s saying?
In this episode of From Both Sides of the Couch, Dr. Laurie Bruce explores three simple yet powerful mindfulness strategies you can start practicing today to slow down, tune in, and truly hear what your body is saying.
Dr. Bruce guides listeners in understanding the “love language” of the body—the subtle signals it sends to guide, protect, and heal. She also shares fascinating, research-backed insights from neuroscience on how stress and pain manifest physically, and what you can do to respond with care.
“Our bodies are lifelong companions,” Dr. Bruce reminds us. “They’re always on our side, always working to protect us.” This episode invites listeners to pause, listen deeply, and treat their bodies like the trusted friends they are.
Listen now: From Both Sides of the Couch – Listening to Your Body: 3 Mindfulness Strategies You Can’t Ignore
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About Dr. Laurie BruceDr. Laurie Bruce is a clinical psychologist and mindfulness coach who earned her Doctorate in Clinical Psychology in 2000. Her expertise lies in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), a treatment blending traditional cognitive and behavioral strategies with Eastern mindfulness practices. She is also a Certified Psychedelic Assisted Psychotherapist, having completed an intensive year-long training through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute. Dr. Bruce is passionate about the safe, legal, and ethical use of psychedelic medicines to address trauma, mood and anxiety disorders, and to support personal and spiritual growth.
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